Tuesday, November 9, 2010

The Language of Women

                                                Why Men don't seem to understand:

Women and Men seem to go about being socially acceptable in different ways.  So in many cases it's hard to understand one another. When a Man begins a conversation he is almost always ensuring, and placing his status. Testosterone is high in many "Manly" conversations. Men in most cases are very straight to the point, and at many times competing with one another to see who's the baddest, smartest, toughest ect... I know we've all heard the expression "Boys will be boys."

Although I will say this is not true in all cases. There is always exceptions.

Women are more of a social networking system. From personal experience and from others experiences, women find it much easier to start conversations, then it is for men to begin a conversation.  It seems in our social code  Women feed off of others energy and sharing our own. You'd be lying if you said you didn't get excited or curious when your hear juicy gossip. We all do and we are all guilty women and men of spreading it. Women are always reliable to let you know how they feel or express, expectations, disappointments, and there emotions, basically what men find so hard to express women find either easy or at least easier. When we see a man carrying these traits of expression, neediness, and emotions, it many cases we refer him as "gay" or well, as a women as bad as that sounds.  

Best friends for women mean intimate talks, "girls night" which almost always consists of alcohol, music, and Gossip. 

 Gossip is a huge part of our society for both Women and Men. You can try and say how different you are and how you and your girls don't gossip.... But I'm sorry we all do

Definitions of gossip on the Web:

  • chitchat: light informal conversation for social occasions
  • dish the dirt: wag one's tongue; speak about others and reveal secrets or intimacies; "She won't dish the dirt"
  • a report (often malicious) about the behavior of other people; "the divorce caused much gossip"
  • chew the fat: talk socially without exchanging too much information; "the men were sitting in the cafe and shooting the breeze"
  • a person given to gossiping and divulging personal information about others

Although Women gossip a lot  men are not innocent of it although some may do it differently then others. Men you are just as guilty. When you call a friend and brag about "hooking up" with this girl or that, or when you pass along something you've heard. If you heard 2nd hand there is a very big chance what you've heard and are now passing along is either a stretch from actual facts or a jump to a fictional story that was based on a true one. {If you catch my drift} We all do it.

Although for women gossiping may actually be what the doctor ordered studies have shown, that in women a hormone that reduces stress, anxiety, and overall makes women happier is let out in there body when they are social networking "Gossiping" The hormone is called Progesterone, and is said if the body healthily releases it that the women are prone to a longer healthier and happier lives.


Saturday, July 17, 2010

Orginized & Color coordinated

The Dream Closets

The perfect home for shoes to rest, purses lay next to the perfect dress. accesories to show their glit and glam, it's true in the end only I will give a damn. but this isnt for you its for my secret escape. and only my dresses, shirts, skirts, pants, capris, khakis, jumpsuits,  can relate. A love seat I'll Lay, & gloat at my aray. -my dream closet
Head bands and wraps are back!

Popular since the 20's they've made there comeback for the new generation with our new age twist

Thursday, July 8, 2010

A Chance to Live

The chance to move on...

When your given the opportunity to move to the next phase in your life i would say grab it in a heart beat. Leave your comfort zone that includes old loves and friendships if there real your not really leaving them at all just growing and making new ones along the way.

A chance to go somewhere, or take a job, or attend a school is one in a life time your not really living if you stay in one place that is your comfort zone.

The color of life is your decision you must splash and paint your own colors to your canvas dont let any one hold you back and keep your life dull.

To live is to hold nothing back and give everything your all.

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Defining Love and Being In Love(There is a difference)

Love, what a global word everyone knows what love is. Even a 2 year old can define love it may not be the same love as  a 20 year old but love is love through and through. I'm going to attempt and define the difference between love and being in love. There is no right and wrong answer just my private interpretation.

Love what a wonderful thing a self medicated drug, Love can pick a person up form the lowest of the low and take them to the highest point in there lives. But the dark side of love  can illuminate itself and pull you right back down, a broken heart is never easy to mend. I don't know if everyone has experienced being in love, but what I can say it's one of the many wonders of our society today and has been from the beginning of time. Through out history we have had our share of love stories "Romeo & Juliet" Cleopatra & Marc Antony, Christian & Isolde. Love brings two people together and connects them some how despite their flaws and despite anyone else. True love does not include anyone but the two love birds. What makes people fall in love i cannot say its different for everyone. But I'm not here to discuss how we fall in love but merely the difference between having  Love and Being in love..

Being in Love and having Love for another can be misinterpreted, couples can stay together with false pretenses confusing Love for one another and being in Love with one another. I to have fallen victim to this and cannot say I have completely pulled through but I do acknowledge the difference. Love is meant to make both people happy, an all time high, something that never gets old. Of course we all fight in relationships, I would be scared for you if you didn't, but love is when you can get past it and move for the future, when you can shake small things off and forgive your spouse. Being in love is always brand new no matter how long you have been in this relationship. Love is an excitement, butterflies in your stomach. As I've spoken about in my Pros & Cons of relationships Love does and will always become a comfort zone. Who wouldn't want to stay with a person they've been with for so long, that person knows every thing they like, certain habits they've come to accept, and it's always great to have a sex partner to feel comfortable with. But don't confuse the comfort for being in love, Love in some couples does die and that doesn't mean you cant have love for that person but if its not meant to be, it's just not meant to be, holding on to a dead relationship can only affect you negatively.

Thursday, May 13, 2010



Although these shoes are  somewhat over the top, these shoes are a small example of just how large bows have gotten in the fashion industries eyes.

Lady Gaga always seems to make interesting fashion statements . Including this awesome  Markus Klinko & Indrani photo shoot, she, already fits this Hello Kitty, big bow , colorful persona! The shoot did nothing but compliment her further.
When looking up what and where people can obtain these "Lady Gaga Hair bows I actually found quiet alot of different locations and companies who sell these in, different sizes, and colors. Ranging in prices of $7.00 all the way to $49.99  Although did not seem to find the exact company that Lady Gaga obtains hers from..

We have the  Hair bows the, Cloth bows ,the bow dresses, the bow shirts. bow shoes and bow skirts. Bows have always been one of the many women emblems of femininity

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Our First Ladys Fashion Frenzy

Designer: Jason Wu
Vogue Photographer: Annie Leibovitz

When Michelle first appeared on the scene she was approached my many top designers due to her obvious eye in fashion and her elegant, and sophisticated style.

{On top we have Marc Jacobs design created solely for Mrs. Obama, and right below we have a custom Betsy Johnson, if you have not realized by now also designed for our first lady }

             Our first lady decided to donate her fabulous, Jason Wu custom made inaugural gown to the Smithsonian National Museum of American History. Michelle's gown will be part of a new gallery, "A First Lady's Debut," which will showcase 11 dresses worn by first ladies. She was joined by designer Jason Wu and a group of design students.  Jason Wu seems to be a favorite for Mrs. Obama and we can see why he captures her elegance and still incorporates her fashion sense.           
     Although many designers have drawn out ideas and offered our first lady numbers of couture pieces she seems to value and favor many designs by Jason Wu.

Michelle Obama accompanied by her Husband were celebrating Cinco De Mayo in the Rose Garden of the White House. Mrs. Obama debuted a fabulous new watercolor print dress by Thakoon. In more depth this silk sleeveless dress showcases a colorful print that strings at her hips, capturing her toned body yet not revealing and staying very classy which Michelle always seems to manage. Her hoop earrings and yellow sandals compliment the fantastic, blend beautifully with her skin color and are a overall classic yet fun twist to the new additions to this old white 

            The Background on our First Lady

      When people ask First Lady Michelle Obama to describe herself, she doesn't hesitate to say that first and foremost, she is Malia and Sasha's mom. But before she was a mother -- or a wife, lawyer or public servant -- she was Fraser and Marian Robinson's daughter. Michelle grew up in a brick bungalow on the South Side of Chicago. Her father was a pump operator for the Chicago Water Department,  despite the fact he had been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis when he was young, he was a hard worker and  hardly ever missed a day of work. Marian stayed home to raise Michelle and her older brother Craig, managing a busy household filled with a endless amount of love, yet a helping dose of structure, and principles to live by.
        A pupil in Chicago public schools, Michelle went on and studied  African-American studies and sociology at Princeton University. She then graduated from Harvard Law School in 1988, she joined the Chicago law firm Sidley & Austin, where she later met the man who would become the love of her life, and our 44th President.
       After a few years, Mrs. Obama decided her true calling was working with people to serve their communities and their neighbors. She served as assistant commissioner of planning and development in Chicago's City Hall before becoming the founding executive director of the Chicago chapter of Public Allies, an AmeriCorps program that prepares youth for public service. (Wow talk about all around type of woman)
             Michelle has shown us that a hard upbringing does not mean it cannot be filled with love and success. She has blended her sophisticated yet fun loving style into graceful yet vogue appropriate! Many relate her to the Kennedy's but we say Michelle Obama is in a category all her own.

Double The Sparkle

The two finger ring has slowly been making its way up to the currently obsessed accesories for the soft or edgy.  They come in all different shapes, colors, and sizes varying from iced out snakes to beautiful thin and feminine engagement rings.